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Can I really do this (children's Party) myself?

20 replies

skewiff · 31/01/2012 12:42

Everyone round here seems to get some sort of entertainment in. Its not like in my day when we round to each other's houses and played party games ...

Our house is v v small, so we'd have to hire a church hall. I reckon there might be about 15 children. DS is 5.

I would love to pay for an entertainer to come, but with the cost of the hall the party will end up costing over £200!

Can I really do this myself??? I'm sure I can - just need some encouragement.

DS says he wants lots of yellow balloons. And he wants a Knight cake with candles that are swords!!! HELP!

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CharminglyOdd · 31/01/2012 13:29

Knight cake = square cake shaped like a sandcastle (i.e. pile it up in layers then cut out square shapes to make the block-y battlements <a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?q=castle+cake&um=1&hl=en&safe=off&sa=N&rlz=1C1ASUT_en-GBGB434GB434&biw=1366&bih=643&tbm=isch&tbnid=AFiWICwcATC6VM:&imgrefurl=www.customcouturecakes.com/birthday_cakes.html&docid=Jzeko8FnKAlr-M&imgurl=www.customcouturecakes.com/images/castle_cake.jpg&w=700&h=618&ei=POsnT57hBsio0QWM9d3kBA&zoom=1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">this <a class="break-all" href="http://www.google.co.uk/imgres?q=castle+cake&um=1&hl=en&safe=off&sa=N&rlz=1C1ASUT_en-GBGB434GB434&biw=1366&bih=643&tbm=isch&tbnid=xDHu3mXiRrcIuM:&imgrefurl=www.cakesbloomsandbling.co.uk/cakes_for_children/fairy_castle_cake.php&docid=bdpOHEmgx4Gs5M&imgurl=www.cakesbloomsandbling.co.uk/cakes_for_children/images/fairy_castle_cake.jpg&w=325&h=433&ei=POsnT57hBsio0QWM9d3kBA&zoom=1" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">or this, with different colours look quite easy - you just make different sized cakes and stick them together. Knight aspect = buy some toy knights and glue them to the cake with icing.

There are some good pictures here that have inverted ice cream cones as turrets.

Easily do the entertainment yourself: pass the parcel; musical chairs; musical statues; mini treasure hunt (Brave Knight and his faithful friends look for treasure - basically like an Easter Egg hunt).

Am stuck on the sword candles. Maybe use normal candles (black/silver colour) and make some kind of hilt-shaped holder?

CharminglyOdd · 31/01/2012 13:32

Or... do you have a DP/DH/DBro who could dress up as a wizard, send the invitations out as 'quest' and then link all the games together as part of a quest to find the treasure? Wizard could greet children and help them link the games together as a story. You could dress up as a witch and do the same thing but might like to keep yourself free for taking pictures, getting food out, organising etc.

3duracellbunnies · 31/01/2012 13:35

Yes, of course you can. Google images of castle cakes, pick an easy one, probably do a larger base cake and then some smaller round or square cakes on top for turrets. Cover it in grey butter icing, with brown ready roll icing for windows. You can make the cake and freeze it, or a day or two before party. Raid your son's knight collection, or buy some which can become part of his present, and put them on the cake next to a candle.

For games I do the same ones as you probably played, just theme them, have dragons as the bad guy, and knights as the good guys. So what's the time mr dragon, relay with foam swords to rescue some treasure (we used football markers); stuck in the mud with one child as dragon, other knights have to rescue them. Pass the parcel, game where you shout out something and they have to imitate (knight, dragon, jester, wizard etc).

If they are mainly in the same class ask the teacher/ta/ your son how they get their attention - our teacher sings song about wiggle your fingers, you can also have a blanket which you get them to sit on between games for instructions, that will calm it down if they get too hyper. If mixture of boys and girls then some craft might go down well - decorate cardboard shields + swords made from cardboard boxes. From what I have heard boys alone just like to run around.

It helps if you have one adult doing the games, and another adult doing the food, plus if possible a few extra helpers for random things. The great thing about doing it yourself is that you do it cos you love him, rather than to make a few quid.

Tinkerisdead · 31/01/2012 13:41

We've had knights parties discussed on shirleys party advice. You can do games easily yourself. Try a craft activity like decorating swords/shields you can find them on yellow/moon baker ross. If you theme the party it gets way easier to think up ideas. If you have loads of kids do 2 pass the parcels, activity tables that you can rotate and consider lunchboxes to make food easier.

nickelhasababy · 31/01/2012 13:43

yellow balloons

do you live near me?
i've got a cardboard castle front and a rapunzel tower you could borrow....

Blatherskite · 31/01/2012 14:05

You need Stealth - she's got loads of ideas for Knight's parties - assuming you want to theme it that is? It does get easier if you do I've found.

Will you be making the cake or would you prefer to buy one?

If you are doing a knight theme then a bouncy castle would keep the children entertained. Decorating shields like DW suggested. I'm sure Stealth had a game worked out which worked a lot like jousting but without the violence. Pass the parcel always a good game for that age group, as is musical statues - both are easy to do and not costly.

Will you be doing party bags?

Blatherskite · 31/01/2012 14:06

candles here No swords but they're very cute :)

ChippyMinton · 31/01/2012 14:09

would a single sword candle do?

Weaselarch · 31/01/2012 14:10

Of course you can do it yourself! You'll be great. I am bemused by the amount of money that is spent on children's parties. We always do it ourselves. I like to hear that others are doing it too.

nickelhasababy · 31/01/2012 14:11

blath - you messed up your link...

nickelhasababy · 31/01/2012 14:13

you can do jousting without violence.

set up a pole with shields/crests either side om a horizontal pole.
get the kids to run from opposite directions with their "lance". whoever gets there first and moves the crest wins.

nickelhasababy · 31/01/2012 14:13

or even have a thing where they have to hook a handkerchief from the pole (the lady's favour)

JaxTellerIsMyFriend · 31/01/2012 14:15

you can do it yourself - but not alone. You need a few other adults helping because you will be doing food/games/refereeing.

Blatherskite · 31/01/2012 14:17

I'll try again here

HipHopOpotomus · 31/01/2012 14:55

LOTS of balloons is the best idea. Be sure to have some of those really huge ones with the rubber band attached they can bounce off their wrists.

I also set up a 'quiet' corner with colouring or crafts (shield making) or something. Kids drop in and out of this area and it gets well used (quietly). See Baker Ross for ideas.

down2earthwithabump · 31/01/2012 17:14

Little one was invited to a Mike the Knight party recently (for 4 year old so had 2-6 year olds) and I have to say it was fabulous. It was held in a small village/church hall type place and the activities they had were: jousting (basically the cardboard tubes from rolls of wrapping paper with a bit of silver foil at one end, or spray painted silver (can't remember) and slotted through a paper plate for the handle and then someone held small hoops/rings (7 - 10" in size) and the "knights" had to run up and try and get the sword through the hoop. They loved it. Simple, not highly technical or competitive or skillful but novel! They let two go at once as a sort of race, and the rest cheered!

They also made Mike-the-Knight masks from foam and paper fasteners. They had egg and spoon races with the Early Learning Centre plastic egg and spoon race set, they then all had food then pass the parcel after as a calmer game. Treasure hunts always work well. The age group only just are understanding the rules for games and younger friends may struggle for the musical... games. But at my little one's party we did musical muddy puddles and had paper "muddy puddles" that they had to stomp in when the music stopped, just big enough for one person each, then after two practices, started taking one away. Simon says, works well, and you can always change Simon's name to fit with the theme. Pin the tail on (or wart on gruffalo, or knight on the horse saddle)

Personally we don't have finance for entertainers, parties don't need to be long (1.5 hours can be fine incl. food), and we are not into inviting everybody so my little one chooses 8 friends who she actually socialises with (play-dates etc) outside of nursery even if they go there too. Write a list of games and get someone to organise/bring out props etc, while one organises the children. Have others doing the food (relatives are good at this). However, our little one is not yet in school, which may be harder to select a few. Our local community centre is very reasonable hire price (£10 per hour or something ridiculous!) but limited in availability, so pays to check out church halls, community halls and little rooms off of soft play etc.

Definitely don't spend more than you need to as it is unnecessary expense. The last two bought entertainments my friends had, one cancelled due to genuine sickness [shocked] the night before, and managed to put them in touch with a bouncy castle hire, but the planned messy science didn't happen so the parents had to come up with a plan last minute, and then another party, some magicians were invited onto a steam train for entertainment and took some strong encouragement as they didn't want to do it when they arrived even though they had had a full briefing!! I have to say once they started they were brilliant, but great stress for Mum!

Whatever you decide, I am sure DC will love it.

skewiff · 31/01/2012 22:48

Thank you so much for all your ideas.

You have given me confidence. I will do it myself.

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Tmesis · 31/01/2012 22:54

We had booked an entertainer for DS's last party. The entertainer didn't show up (turned out afterwards that her father had had a heart attack) and we had to improvise 2 hours of activities with NO preparation. The children had a great time and it only occurred to DS about half an hour after the end of the party that the entertainer hadn't shown up. It brought it home to me that it is possible to do it yourself.

stealthsquiggle · 01/02/2012 09:51

You can do it - bring yourself over to here and we will inundate you with more ideas than you know what to do with. I have done parties for 30 or more with no entertainer - and they are way more fun, and more memorable for the DC, than a.n.other magician/disco/whatever.

knight cake?

HipHopOpotomus · 01/02/2012 10:16

The KNIGHT CAKE is amazing!!!!!

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