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Is this a mad plan for a 6 year old's party?

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fadingfast · 25/08/2010 22:20

Ds is 6 in October. We had a small party at home last year which was fine, but this year he would like some school friends there rather than just family friends. We are not keen to have it at home (15-20 children), and having investigated the indoor play options we have decided against it for being too expensive (and I really can't stand those places, although we would have gone for it if it wasn't for the cost, as DS loves them).

My cunning plan is to arrange for the guests to meet us at the local park where there is an excellent play area, for the children to play for about an hour. We have then booked the community centre (on the park) for the princely sum of £20 for the whole afternoon. We will do tea back at the hall and perhaps one or two games.

Do you think this would work? My main concern is about some parents leaving their kids with us and us not being able to properly supervise them all in the play area. We were thinking of asking for parents to stay, unless this would cause them any difficulties in which case we would ensure we had enough adults to supervise. Do you think this is reasonable, or will it be a logistical nightmare? Is it worse to have to supervise lots of kids or cater for all the parents!?

If the weather is bad then obviously we will abandon the park bit and just go to the hall, in which case we will need a few more games. What sort of thing is good at this age? Pass the parcel? Muscical bumps? Any others?

I like the idea of a DIY party in theory but it's all a bit daunting, so any ideas/thoughts welcome!

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insertexpletive · 26/08/2010 07:59

It is going to be difficult for you to know what the weather will do in October (well, if August is anything to go by!)

The park is a nice idea, but most parents will not expect to stay at a 6yo party, unless you know them well and it is a bit of a get together for them too iyswim. If the park is gated though, you could probably supervise with help - you will need name badges - is the park large and busy?

Have you thought about just using the hall and do a bit of a DIY themed party?
Is your ds into football? Do you know anyone who could help with football skills, then organise a game in the hall?

Perhaps hire a bouncy castle?

I have done DIY themed parties for Pirates, Dinosaurs, Toy Story, and various others, with a bit of imagination you can come up with games other than pass the parcel Smile

ramonaquimby · 26/08/2010 08:04

if you're asking parents to stay you have to cater for them as well. I wouldn't normally stay for a 6y olds party - but equally I would stay to supervise my own child in a public playground where loads of others were running around.

why do you need to have such a big party? invite a third of that and have it at home instead

fadingfast · 26/08/2010 13:36

I did ask if he would prefer a smaller party at home or a bigger one with more friends, and surprise surprise he wanted the bigger one (so all our fault!). But I didn't really want him to have to choose between all his 'old' friends, who we still see a lot and his 'new' school friends.

Many of the parents we do know well and several have younger siblings, so I think they would be happy to stay. In reality there might only be 3 or 4 school friends whose mum might not be expecting to stay - so it might not be such a big problem. I could make them all wear something red to help keep an eye on them! It is a busy park, but the play area is fenced and I think some of our friends would be ok with helping keep an eye on anyone unaccompanied!

I agree the weather is a bit of a risk, but if it is really awful we can have some extra indoor games planned. I'm thinking of a 'lego' theme and have found a few games along those lines and we can make our own invites spelling out that parents need to let us know if they are staying or not.

I think I'm talking myself into it now!

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LostArt · 26/08/2010 13:45

My DD has been to a similar party to the one you are planning. The children loved it because it was very relaxed and they enjoyed playing outside. The community centre opened right on the the play area, so it was easy for guests to flit between inside games and outside play. Unfortunately, as the part was open to everyone, she spent most of her time kicking gate crashers out of the hall. Hope the weather is good for you.

PfftTheMagicDragon · 26/08/2010 18:55

I would not expect to stay at a 6 year old party.

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