So I screwed up royally by not reminding DH that it was my close friend's 50th birthday, and that she was having a big party at home. He went off and booked a wedding anniversary trip for us, non-refundable so we absolutely can't make her party next month.
She's a good friend. A bit OTT at times, but she does have a difficult relationship with her husband who can be hard work. So what do I get her for her birthday that doesn't look like a "guilt" present (although I do feel guilty of course that we are missing her party), but more like a "now you're entering the next exciting phase of your life" present? Her husband is unlikely to get her jewellery unless he gets hit on the head between now and next month, but I feel jewellery is more the husband's preserve anyway. I'd like to get something personal, not a gift voucher.
All ideas gratefully received - am feeling brain dead.