Well, where do I start? My husband has a couple of adult children. One of where seems to think that she has priority over me, the wife. Your 40ish give or take a year or two, with your own children. Don't want to pay bills, buy grocery or anything, just want everything for free. Has lived with us for almost a year now without the intent to look for anywhere to go. Has even had assistance offered and still refuses. I understand places are expensive, yet, you have a very decent job but you feel you have this priority to be with your father. My hubby states it's for the kids. Yes, I understand that. But as a mom, you're supposed make way for yours! Am I wrong for wanting them to move out?