Hi all, I've posted before, mainly about 4 years ago when my son was 21, he's now 25 (26 in Sep). I'm single and my son lives with me. Our relationship has always been quite tumultuous and he can be very verbally abusive and sometimes aggressive. Last Feb I called the police after he'd pushed me over twice and spat at me and they were going to charge him with common assault. I tried to stay strong but I let him back in after 4 nights and he agreed with the the rules I set out. Things were OK for several months and he has been working full time for 14 months and pays board. However over the last probably 4/5 months there's been a decline in his attitude to ne again and the verbal attacks have started again. He does literally nothing round the house despite me asking. He sits in the living room most evenings and leaves it a mess. He's away thus weekend and it's absolute bliss. I tread on eggshells when he's around. I work in the NHS and I've spoken with the domestic violence officer and she is very supportive. I've asked him to move out at the end of this month but I know he won't look for anywhere to live cos ge thinks I won't follow through. I'm so unhappy when he's here but I know even if he finds somewhere he'll constantly ask for money. He twists everything and says I'm crazy, a bully and an emotionally abusive narcissist.