Dilemma daughter marriage

[EllenW123]

My dilemma - my daughter got married September last year. I paid for the photographer. Her Dad and I have been split since she was a baby. The video and images from the photographer came back two weeks ago, all the speeches were included but it didn't include my speech. Her husband and her have told me they have asked him about it two weeks ago. Apparently, he says sorry he will try and find it, but still nothing! I am fuming but don't want to make a big thing if it, what do I do?

Have you paid anything yet?

If not, I'd say nothing to my daughter at this stage and go straight to photographer to get a discount if he has indeed missed your speech.

If your daughter is handling the photographer and you're just giving the money, I don't think there's any harm in waiting another week or so and then bringing it up with her. You should at least get money off if he's missed your speech imo.

Yeah it was paid in advance by me before the wedding

Well then I'd ask the photographer directly for some money back.

Your relationship with her dad is irrelevant. Your speech should have been recorded if not then ask for 5% off

Ask for a partial refund!

I am afraid I will be causing trouble and they will not like me for approaching him directly. Afraid it will cause a massive fallout?