Looking for advice regarding 20 yo son. He just seems to have very little motivation to do anything. He has a job which he gets up and goes to everyday and he enjoys but he spends nearly all his weekends in his room either in bed or talking to friends on computer. He doesn’t want to spend any time with his family and seems to have little interest in other people. He is somewhat socially awkward and will generally avoid coming downstairs if we have people round. He will be polite and say hello but that’s as far as it goes. When I ask him why he won’t join in or engage his answer is that he hates small talk. He doesn’t appear to be depressed as I hear him laughing and joking with friends on his computer and when I’ve talked to him about this he just says he’s happy as he is, being alone. Initially we thought this might be a post covid isolation thing but it doesn’t seem to be getting any better and I’m worried he will become a recluse. He has some aspirations in that he is saving for his own place - ‘so that he can be alone’ Advice please!