Single parent of 20something woman, we had awfully hard times and situations all throughout. Yet we always had love and fun. I can't stand it/her anymore, I'm literally waiting to die! Everything I say or try to do isn't good enough, I feel like a stupid husband or something to her, maintains I misunderstand. Just now, after several remarks recently about how I'd never made her birthday special, I was trying to order her 40£ cake online, couldn't find it, asked for help, got scratched when she took phone from me, I said she could try to be nicer or more grateful, (as I've been trying to communicate to her for years now) this turned into I don't want a cake drama and tears upstairs. I'm so tired , she makes me feel useless and stupid, have a health condition where I'm tired, depressed and in pain, honestly, what about my birthday cake!! I've bought my own card/ or mother's day card more than once, everything is about her I don't want to put her out because she's just not mature , honestly, I've given all I've got, I've ordered some weed for Xmas and plan to get drunk a lot , life SUCKS 😔