25 year old son left home a few months ago, bought an house with our help. He wanted to live on his own, literally 2 mins away. He hates it, hates living on his own, no motivation to do anything to house! Doesn’t manage money well, at pub for company, seems depressed and frequently tells me he hates it. I want to cry for him, feel awful , I know we have no reason to , we have helped financially and physically doing lots of decorating etc in the house. I just want him to feel better about the opportunity to be on the property ladder, better about life , making and taking opportunities etc, he seems so sad. For context DH who’s DS dad says to ignore and he plays it up for me, want a magic wand