Longtoes49 · Today 14:13
My daughter was the perfect child until she hit 16 - and has been a complete nightmare for the past 6 years. She is completely self absorbed, never gives a thought to anyone else and would pick a fight with her shadow if she could. She stays out for nights on end and never lets us know that she’s not coming home even though that is all we ask of her, we’ve given up asking any probing questions because she rarely tells the truth and then that causes an argument. She completely trashes her room and anything else she touches. She did move out for a year which we were glad about but soon moved back when she realised it’s not as good as it first seemed. She has a good job that she manages well and gets paid very well but she never pays her credit cards or store cards and is forever being written to about it. She causes me so much anxiety - I keep thinking she will grow out of it but she’s 22 and seems worse than ever. I’ve tried many times to talk with her but she usually tells me to get lost. Any advice would be appreciated.