Hello, looking for advice as feel completely stuck. My 18 Yr old son hates my new partner. I separated from his dad 3 yrs ago and unfortunately he is as controlling as his father! I have been with new partner for couple of years and I would really like him to move in this year. My son is adamant he won't live with him and says he will move out. If he had the wages/maturity to move out I wouldnt worry but he doesn't. He goes to work the comes home, smokes weed and sits in his room all night. He doesn't see any friends. He refuses any compromise so I'm torn between letting an 18 Yr old who barely speaks to me control my life or putting my foot down but risking losing my son! He doesn't have anywhere to go and it scares me where he might end up (his dad is useless and not an option). I don't want him to feel he has to leave home but I've been unhappy for 20+ years and think I deserve to have a go at a normal happy life with new partner. I also have a 21 yr old who is happy for me and has no issues. Any advice please? Thank you