Have a lovely dd.
Has left uni course. Has already signed for nexy year in student house in lovely and expensive city.
Dd had got a job in that city each eve but hates it. Several converstions in the week involve this hatred of the boring new job. . No idea what wants to do . Offered job in a stable. Which always loved . Had horse all life. Is doing both jobs as decided to start new job in day before working notice at eve job.
Que.. exhausted dd on phone. I dont know if i want this new job . Cant think straight up at 5 to.go to.stable job whilst work restraunt at night. Dare not pack in eve job as insure if wants stay stable. Aware few jobs in pandemic.
This pattern has gone on a while in similar way like in relatuonships. Am terrified she will have car crash living like this . I think it is driven by fear but dont know how to help.. fear of not knowing what direction to take , knowing liable for rent as signed a year ahead .. i am try to support but struggling to manage the what feels like chaos !!! And breathe