Dd has come back from university. She has always taken her moods out on me, and I always respond in the end.
But it is so much worse now. Since coming home she has been so self centred that it is hard to believe. Expecting to be treated as an adult but acting like a child.
She hasn't spoken to me for 24 hours because she was throwing out perfectly good in date chocolates and I rescued them. It's so bizarre it is almost funny.
She sneers when I talk, knows better than I do about everything.
She goes out for her exercise without asking if we need any food bought. I am doing all the shopping as her father is in the vulnerable group, and is staying in.
She offers her dad a drink and not me. She cooks for herself separately as she doesn't like our food, using the food I buy of course, leaves a mess and says she will clear it up later. She never does.
She seems stuck mentally at about 14. She has had problems with all her flatmates over the last last 2 years. I think that it's her.
She can be funny, clever and kind but with me I so rarely see it unless everything is going her way.
I visited her in her university town last month and we had a great time. Now I think that is because I took her out to nice restaurants.
If this were usual times I would very clearly tell her that she either shaoes up or leaves. But I can't.
I just need to get through this time I know but it is so hard. I love her so much but I don't think that she is actually a very nice person.