Sons Girlfriend

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My sons girlfriend moved in with us a couple of years agoshe shows no respect for our property at allshe has caused a considerable of damageno apologiesshe does very little in the way of help about the house and seems to think we are here to tidy up after herwhen the subect is raised it just causes conflict with no acknowledgement of the problemsmoving away at this time is problematicthe atmosphere in the house at the moment is awful after a major bust upany advice gladly taken

How old is she? If over 18 you know the answer.

A couple of years!!! She knows she's on to a good thing. Yes, just give them a deadline and tell them to move out.

You need to think long-term here. Can you sit them both down with a cuppa and have a gentle talk, along the lines of, "You know we love you but..." ?

I agree with Sand&Sea. Try a gentle approach. Very tricky as you risk pushing your son away. I feel for you though as I'm in a similar position - son's girlfriend living here and we're not keen on her.