My daughter who turned 18 in January met her boyfriend 9 months ago.this is her first serious relationship.all was good.i feel I am a laid back and cool mum.i allowed her boyfriend to stay over which quickly became every night...her interest in college and looking for a job was drastically declining.she told me she wasn't going to go back to college.i have made it clear from the start that if any of my children are not in education they are to get a job and contribute to the house hold...over the last 6 months she has became lazier, staying in her room all day with the boyfriend, not interacting with the family, she doesn't smile or laugh..I started to lay some rules down like the boyfriend not staying over so much and maybe she could stay at the boyfriends house a little...this obviously was the wrong thing to say..since then it has been a constant battle with her.i asked her to contribute to cleaning the house for me while I work 12 hr shifts, her reply was can't be bothered...she also got pregnant and had it aborted.i supported her through out this....it finally came to ahead and I have had no other option but to throw her out..after 6 months of trying to guide her in being an adult and asking just a little help around the house..her boyfriend has sent me a message which wasn't very nice...this has really affected my mental health state and the relationship in my house hold..she calls me the psycho bitch and immature..and even after all this I feel sick to the stomach with guilt that I have thrown my baby girl out....pls pls some advice would be much appreciated...I also have a younger girl and an older son who works and goes to college so surely I'm not doing anything to wrong...