Ok, so I've just asked my dd to give me a hand with the washing up- we had both cooked separate meals. She said ok but continued to sit on the sofa. I washed up my things and left hers to one side ( I'd normally do the washing up but not this time!). I explained to dad what I had done and she then imeidiatly became angry, so I asked her to calm her tone and think about how she was talking to me. She proceeded to inform me that I'm a lazy shxx and that I left a pan of cooked pasta on the hob last week ( while I was at the gym) . I asked why that even effected her!
She stood up and looked like she was going to throw her laptop at me. I made the mistake of getting upset at her hurtful comments and actions and called her a spoilt princess as all I'd asked was some help washing up. She stomped over to me, I thought she was going to hit me.
She threw many, more very nasty insults at me - while walking from the room. I'm feeling completely shell shocked. My dh as supportive as ever asked what I had said to upset her!
I asked him if he had actually heard all the nasty things she had said! His reply, I just heard lots of shouting!
Really is it too much to ask your 21 dd who pays no rent, to assist with washing up ?
I've come to mums net to get some support as my husband seems to be incapable of supporting me.