I have four children, a daughter aged 11,2 sons 9 and 7 and an 18mth old.I work a little and most of the time have an aupair who would help generally clearing and tiding up.I feel that it is important for the children to understand that they need to help in the general scheme of family life but always run into confrontation when I ask for help. My daughter is great at helping with the baby ,chivying her brothers along and even does a bit of ironing for me but always on her terms,if she is not in the mood forget it!one son is more willing and the other very good at being busy when needed.Sometimes it seems easier to do it myself,especially if they are playing nicely(rare)but I just don't feel thats fair on me or them as they will not be prepared well for adult life and surely it is important for them to start assuming some resposibility,no matter how small. As a child I was always expected to help with laying /clearing the table and would never have dreamt of walking away leaving a huge mess.
How much do your children help you and how do you manage it without world war 3 breaking out?
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How much do your children help?
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Boo321 · 20/07/2001 21:28
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