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Exams start tomorrow, am not ready, calming advice please!

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Pawslikepaddington · 25/05/2010 14:58

I'm just so scared of letting everyone down. I have done as much as I can without going crazy, or taking too much attention away from dd or dp, but I don't know anything! Tomorrow is the exam I was most confident about, and I seem to know nothing, and then have them every day/day and a half until next Wed, in ever increasing levels of not knowing! I am so ashamed of myself and am becoming more and more panicked. Please help!

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whiteflame · 25/05/2010 17:29

hi pawslikepaddington! i also suffer from the exam panic you descried so well (although no exams at the moment!). If you've tried your level best then I'm sure you know a lot more than nothing

i find that it helps me to think that by this time tomorrow, it will all be over, regardless of how it goes. It seems to calm me down a bit to picture doing something different (even if it's just studying for a different exam!) - maybe it's a comforting "life will go on" thing??

Best of luck!!

CastleDouglas · 25/05/2010 18:55

The fact that you're worried means you're more likely to do well. The stress is horrible, but it also makes you super-focused. I always allow myself 5 minutes' panic time at the start of an exam, then concentrate on the questions.

Whiteflame's advice about thinking 'this time tomorrow' is good, that's what I do and it works. Good luck with your exams, I've got them this week and next as well, I bet you're far more organised than me

Pawslikepaddington · 26/05/2010 04:29

Thank you both so much, am tittering to myself about the organised comment! Am always worst for the first one, and then it is a case of "well there is nothing I can do now!" after that. And I went to bed uber early, so got a good 7 hours in, which is unheard of!

GOOD LUCK CastleDouglas!

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CastleDouglas · 26/05/2010 13:23

Thanks

Pawslikepaddington · 26/05/2010 17:03

That's the first done, only 4 more to go! Am not happy that I have a saturday and a bank holiday exam, but it gets them out of the way more quickly! Yippee I'm over the worst of it!

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WhatWouldMadonnaDo · 26/05/2010 21:05

Good for you! I hope the next four aren't too bad.

Mine start a week today and I am wondering whether leaving the country and faking my own death are viable options...

CastleDouglas · 27/05/2010 18:27

Well done Paddington, it can only get better . Whatwould, don't leave the country. What you need to do is drink lots of wine and use the excuse that it makes you feel more relaxed when you're revising. Well, that's what I keep telling DH.

Pawslikepaddington · 28/05/2010 14:50

Ha ha, the faking death or dropping out prior to tomorrow both look like good options right now! I cannot answer a single question on the paper, let alone write for three hours!

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Pawslikepaddington · 28/05/2010 14:51

Past paper that is. If it was a real one I would laugh so heartily!

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WhatWouldMadonnaDo · 28/05/2010 21:10

I've hit a point whereby I'm so tired that even looking at a bottle of wine will send me to sleep

Do you have an exam on a Saturday Paws?

I have stopped looking at past papers for fear of my own sanity. Three hours is a very long time to sit looking at a blank sheet of paper... Maybe it'll be a chance to have a nap?

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