get up at about 6:15am, as I also have dd aged 3. If DS (5 months) has been up lots and DH is home, i will stay in bed after morning feed. if not, get up, have coffee, change DS bottom, change clothes if needed lay comatose on sofa for a bit. Do breakfast for DD. DS has a nap at about 10:am ish, we have lunch at 12:30 ish, nap again about 2pm ish, tea for DD at 5:30pm ish, (sometimes we eat with her sometimes not, sometimes it is at 6pm if she is at nursery). Then, bedtime routine for DS is 6:30pm start it, DD to bed at 7:30pm DS to bed at 8pm atm (will bring forward).
That is the same most days. The naps can happen at home, in the car, at a friends. The rest of my days are quite random really. DD is at nursery 2.5 days a week. We visit friends for coffee, go for walks, have lunch with friends, catch up on housework (in the morning mostly). Sometimes we don;t do much, DD plays, DS plays on his mat, and I watch tv, dont get dressed at all, other days, we are out all day.
It is quite random. I am not good at doing the same things every day/same time/every week, never really done regular play groups, although did swim baby with DD and will do that again with DS soon, and will do some stuff with DD that DS will be dragged along to.