Looking for a bit of advice about how to deal with this. DD is 20 months. She has a reasonably varied diet, loves fruit and will happily eat oat cakes or rice cakes and cream cheese, yoghurt, vegetables, and nearly always eats a good breakfast. However, when we put lunch and dinner in front of her she will sometimes have a pick at it, but often refuse it all together.
Our current strategy is-keep offering meals, try to eat together as much as possible, no stress or pressure if the food isn't eaten. No replacement foods offered (except a small pudding after evening meal)and snacks between meals kept to a minimum (and then only 'healthy' ones). I'm also trying to make sure that there is something she likes on each plate of food e.g. if I'm offering a casserole and not sure she'll like it, I'll do some veg with it.
Does this sound about right or is there something extra or something different that I should be doing? Has anyone else been there and had their DC grow out of it?