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DD sits, kneels, stands in cot and won't sleep - help!

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b1anca · 15/04/2010 08:10

My 11 month daughter, in the last 3 days, has developed a bad habit and I just don't know what to do.
She has always been so good at bedtime - bath, bottle, book and bed. BUT since Monday this has all changed . She has learnt how to sit herself up, kneel and stand in the cot. I know she can sit from a standing position but I don't think she is able to lay herself back down from a sitting position.
At first she's very pleased with herself and then when I lay her back down she starts to cry and pull herself up. I ignore her and walk out and she continues to cry.
I have left her to cry but she just cries and cries and cries until she's so exhausted that when I go back to her room I can lay her down and she'll stay down....but this doesn't feel like she's learning she shouldn't do this. Also if she wakes in the night she automatically sits up and gets upset. It took me 2 hours to get her to sleep last night. I just left her but she just there whimpering.
I just don't know what to do?
My husband has suggested that I sew her sleeping bag to the mattress but somehow I don't think that's the answer!

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tortoiseonthehalfshell · 15/04/2010 08:16

Ha, I know someone who pinned her twins' sleeping bags to the mattress because she was worried about them rolling over.

Um, anyway, you don't want to hear this but it's just a phase. Wait it out. This was the age where we did a little bit of CC because our daughter was doing the same thing, and I don't know if it made any difference really - well, it did, but only temporarily. She just learned to get back down on her own, and the phase passed.

It does feel forever at the time, though, doesn't it?

b1anca · 15/04/2010 08:21

It certainly does seem forever!
Should I ignore her or keep going in and laying her down or just wait till she's so knackered that when I go in she'll stay in a lying position?
I feel I'm sending out mixed messages to her. Should I be consistent with one thing?

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tortoiseonthehalfshell · 15/04/2010 08:22

Are you putting her down awake in the first place? Or is she waking up and then standing up?

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b1anca · 15/04/2010 09:01

Yep I'm putting her down awake in the first place so immediately she wants to sit up. In the night, if she wakes up, she pulls herself up.

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