I have a 2yo ds and a 6mo dd.
I've never really thought about this until now.
I do 2 washes a day, with the kids outfits, pj's, our outfits, work clothes, night clothes.
My dcs wear a change of clothes a day, change of vest a day ( wear it all day and all night, bath/shower in the am and new vest on). My ds usually gets 3 wears out of a coat tops because he is such a messy boy, always climbing or digging.
Anyway, my dc's stayed with their gps, last Saturday onto Sunday, from 6pm till 5pm.
In the bag there was a new vest, a full new outfit (top, trousers, jumper, socks) a set of pj's.
When they come home the next day, my dd was wearing huge boys socks, an age 18-24 vest, no teeshirt, weapped up in her carseat with a throw over, fleece, cover thing.
When i asked what happened to her clothes. mil said i didn't give her enough so she had to ask her next door neighbour for clothes. I only gave her one vest and one pair of socks, which they wore during the night. So mil put her clean vest, teeshirt and socks on with pjs.
My ds had no vest, and the teeshirt he had left wearing, and orange socks that were from the next door neighbour, because he slept in his new teeshirt, socks (along with his pj's).
On asking why, mil told me that it wasn't fair making them wear their clothes over again, and she had to wash their clothes as i hadn't given them enough, and she even had to wrap my dd up because i didn't give her a clean jacket. After she left i emptied their bag, and everything still smelled like washing powder, my ds pj top had something red on the front, but that was it. So what was the fuss about?
Do you all change vests morning and night? Do your dcs wear socks and teeshirts in bed (over sleepysuits). Stuck between thinking she is mental or i'm neglectful.