My DD is 6, and I split from her dad before she was 1 because he wouldn't be stop arguing (that was the nature of our relationship overall). But for some time things have amicable, she sees him regularly, likes his girlfriend, likes my new DH who I met before she was 2, and she's dealt well with arrival of little brother (now nearly 2) - but somehow she is very emotional and clearly doesn't feel secure. What can I do? Do i take her to a counsellor? What messages can I giver her to make her feel more 'whole' is that the problem? Any advice very welcome..