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Nannies not being allowed to take babies on tube or bus - do you agree with this?

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Ragtaggle · 21/07/2005 15:07

Just interested. My nanny has two nanny friends who she sees on a daily basis and our children are all friends. I found out recently that I am the only parent of the three that allows their nanny to take her child on the tube and bus, One of the nannies hasn't been allowed to use either of these forms of transport for over a year - it's not just a response to the last few weeks. The justification is that the mother would 'never forgive herself' if something happened to her two year old when the child was with the nanny.

Until now, I've thought that this is very wrong. The other children have missed out on several fun trips my nanny has taken to local zoos, parks and museums and the like. Only allowing the nannies to walk (or sometimes takes a taxi) seems very restrictive - after all terrorist attacks and accidents could happen anywhere and you can't wrap them up in cotton wool can you? But I suppose today's evacuations have made me a little uneasy and I'm curious - would you let your nanny take your baby on the bus or tube in the current climate?

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ThePrisoner · 22/07/2005 00:28

As a childminder, I take my minded children out in my minibus all the time (and we have to have written permission for it too).

I think it is very hard for parents to leave their children with anyone anyway, but I guess you have to have trust - otherwise you shouldn't be leaving your children with that nanny/minder in the first place.

I would be more than happy for a nanny to take children out on public transport. However, the current issues with whether you would want to do it in London now would make me think twice. It would be nothing to do with not trusting the nanny, just wanting to be with my own children should there be any kind of problem.

BridetobeFlum · 22/07/2005 00:41

Even in light of the recent bombings. Thats just nuts. Seems to me a lot of people expect their nannies to be triply good at parenting than the actual parents are. Unrealistic and also and implies a lack of trust in nanny's capability and an irrational fear of the world.

Probably don't let kids play out either in case man on corner is a paedo.

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