Dd will be 4 in April.
I have got her - various pressies, dinosaur related bit and pieces as she is dino obsessed, a wii game, peppa pig torch, toy story lego and a rose petal cottage for her big present. (got it half price in january - yay!) Also a snazzy outfit from next to wear on her birthday (not that she is incredibly fashion concious yet).
Me and dh have planned a day out to a childrens science museum, near her birthday, and a birthday lunch on her birthday with dd, me dh and dsd. Will decorate the table and have sausage rolls, sandwiches, salad and buns - plus of course the dinosaur birthday cake, on colourful paper plates and cups etc.
Now growing up I didn't have much, and in the past I have been a bit 'tight' with dd, now I am trying to get the balance right without going bananas. She is a sweet child who doesn't 'expect' any huge fuss on her birthday, and I think she will be thrilled.
Am I horribly deluded or have I got it about right? Money not an issue btw, just my judgement!