I'm kind of feeling guilty that my DC (DS age 8 and DD age 6) don't do more organised activities and more to the point don't actually want to do more stuff.
They both go to swimming lessons because I insist they go until they are competent swimmers but I doubt they would be bothered if I stopped the classes. DS goes to Cubs but seems far less keen on it than he was on Beavers (possibly because there is more actual doing stuff and less mad running around games). DD would love to go to Rainbows but is unlikely to get a place.
DS started recorders but dropped out, DD expressed an interest in ballet classes but wouldn't go in the end because her best friend didn't want to go. I do suggest various activities sometimes but to no great enthusiasm.
Both DC's favourite things to do are 1) have friends to play/tea 2) meet up with friends at the park 3) play out on their bikes, 4)lounge around the house watching TV, playing computer games or if deprived of screens will play with lego/read. At weekends they are happy to go out with me and DH as long as they are fun things like visiting friends or family and not long country walks which they detest.
Should I be worried that my DC have no interest in learning an instrument/playing a sport/belonging to an organised group or do other people have DC that are as lazy laidback as mine?