A week ago, there was no way on this earth i wanted another baby, ever! I have a 5 year old and a 3 year old from my previous marriage and my 5 year old son has aspergers. My partner has 2 also, 8 and 5, we had them 6 nights a week until last Tuesday when the judge decided to let their ex drug addict, gambling, benefit frauding, drinking mum 'have a go' at being their mum.
With all 4 kids about so much, i put the idea right out of head, it was too selfish and i knew it would be really really hard if not impossible and split us up.
He is the love of my life, i was abused for 8 years before and my new partner is so sweet and loving and caring and considerate and treats me as more than an equal and he desperately wants a baby together.
Now we only have his 2 5 nights out of 14 and mine 4 nights out of 7, is it possible? I have done a complete 180 and i would get pregnant tomorrow if i could! I'm just terrified of regretting it or that we are being selfish!?