my daughter is 22 mo and has in the last 4 days been very unsettled at night - she is unhappy to be left at bedtime and is pointing to each of us wanting to know who we are, mama, dada and sister and herself. She is also waking in the night crying loudly and again not wanting to be left and needing a lot of reassurance. she started at a nursery 2 mornings a week about 6 weeks ago and appears to be fine there though when i asked them the other day how she was they said she was still settling in - I need to find out what they mean by that. My husband had been away for work for the two days before this happened (she slept well) but I kept her up until he came back, a little later than normal and she then had difficulty settling for bed and it is since then that this has been happening. Is it my husband being away, is it the nursery? any experiences of this would be most welcome.