Its not that Im clueless or dim, its just that Ive wondered if there was a better way.
Last time I used cloth DD1 just did fairly neat solid poos, so no problem (still does!). DD3 likes to make a real mess though. Im using either prefolds or Sandy's with disposable liner. The liner doesnt stay in place and poo ends up all over - this is one very wriggly lively 10 month old.
So I normally hold it over the toilet and shake it off, liner and hopefully some poo, but its like super sticky stuff and really clings to the Sandy's. I then hold the nappy and sluice with a flush of the toilet. This seems to have hardly any effect. The basin in the downstairs loo is quite small, so at that point I give up, use a separate bucket to soak with a bit of detergent.
If you can tell me a better way please do.