My good freind and I have had to gently part company -she has ds same age as me and whenever they had a fall -out- as ds do in my book-she wanted to discuss it in a therapy type way and i just found it too much ,whilst she thought that I was refusing to discuss issues,,,,eg ds took a toy car - my ds got told off - i thought that was appropriate - my freind wanted to discuss the dynamic between the boys etc etc- I am well educated but i felt rather foolish when i was told i was refusing to discuss stuff ,when to me it was simply a difference of opinion and ways of handling stuff, and both were valid ....i do miss my friend, but i did not feel that i could subject my ds to something i did not feel appropriate.i felt that he needed to know do things wrong ,learn and move on not analyse it in that way.I would like to move forward but she says she cant until I hear what she needs to say -and presumably take it on board.Anyone else had similar....