hello! help me with a guilt trip i am currently having. DH and i had our first baby this jan. i'd say the one thing we miss most is prob the huge lie ins at the weekend. little girl went down at 9.30ish last night and it's now 9.30am, DH has done his duty with the nappies and is fast asleep again which i can't really blame him for. am breastfeeding so i'm kind of forced into conciousness by complaining stomach that require more time to be satisfied. DD is normally wreathed in smiles at this point of morning and ready for a play but if left to own devices will go back to sleep as well. is it bad to let her sleep on past 12 hours without any human interaction and join in the lie in or should i be insisting we (or at least DH) have a play with her before she drops off again???