I feel much better than I have done in weeks. I have also eaten three proper meals per day and snacks too! Could the two be connected perhaps? I no longer feel my three year old has the devil in her, I feel as if I might be an adequate parent and that she might make it to adulthood without being completely messed up! I have also stopped swearing at the saucepans in the evening whilst unloading the dishwasher! Now, obviously I just have to feel guilty that I didn't work it out before....