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2 year old not eating - how many months will it go on + is there anything i can do?

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citybranch · 18/02/2009 16:42

My 2 year old DS's eating has been deteriorating since November (he has always been a bit fussy). Each week he seems to have dropped something from his diet. Recently we are down to yoghurt, peanut butter on toast, ice cream - THAT IS ALL HE WILL TOUCH - and not much of it either!

We ended up in A+E with him on saturday as he has been trying to shake this cold off for weeks, but his temp suddenly shot up to 40 and he went all floppy.
I spoke to the paediatrician at hospital about the eating as i have suspected that he could have enlarged tonsils making it difficult to swallow - he also dribbles gallons! This doctor said his tonsils are normal + not to worry it was just toddler faddy eating. My GP has said the same previously.

I just wonder how many months he will go on barely eating before a doctor will sit up and take notice? Is it normal that a child can't shake off a cold for weeks because of lack of nutrition? My DS has lost so much weight. The antibiotics the hospital have put him on have given him diorrhea, he has only eaten 2 yoghurts since friday (its now wed) and he just sleeps all day. I'm getting so worried about him. I feel like a terrible mother because he just won't eat.

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nannyL · 19/02/2009 11:16

my charges is 3 and eats the most perfect diet possible.... (and drinks lots

he had a pretty much constant cold from October - January... and alot of the time he was actuallly quite poorly and had a really really nasty cough too

his parents are Drs, (one is a GP) and they werent worried at all even though it went on and on for months and months.

He has always been a dribbler and even now at 3.5 he can dribble but gets told off for it then stops

nappyaddict · 19/02/2009 17:53

how did it go?

citybranch · 19/02/2009 20:13

hi,
i had a long chat with the gp who really is assuring me that there's nothing to worry about. He says that in 30 years he has seen many children who live on yoghurts and bread.. he is absolutely convinced it is a behavioural thing rather than medical.
I have to think about what i'll do next, have HV appointment in 2 weeks so i will approach it with her. She'll be weighing DS etc so she may be a little more concerned about the weightloss etc.
DS has eaten a little today and seems a bit better.
Really don't know what to think!

Yes his belly is very round and looks funny on his tiny matchstick legs.
AAaaaarggggh!
Thanks for all your replies, by the way. thank god for mumsnet.

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