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Leaving DS for first weekend away - want to be excited but feeling anxious

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drjane · 18/01/2009 21:03

DS is 16 months, and his two aunties (my DH's sisters) have very kindly offered to come and look after him for a weekend so DH and I can take a much-needed weekend away together.

I was really excited about the prospect, but now that it's less than a week away I've started to get really nervous...will he think we've abandoned him? He has met his aunts a few times (they live quite far away) and likes them - and they obviously adore him - but he doesn't see them that regularly. Will he feel like he's with strangers? And will I be able to relax at all while we're away? He's also not a very good sleeper and I'm not sure how he'll react to someone who isn't me or DH trying to settle him at night.

I've been away from him for work trips of 5 or so nights a couple of times (leaving him with DS) and we've left him with my mum to put to bed etc a few times (not overnight though) and he's been fine. He doesn't have separation anxiety and generally is a secure, happy little boy.

Will he be okay? Has anyone else done something similar and it's been okay? Please reassure me!

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drjane · 19/01/2009 07:42

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Eve34 · 19/01/2009 08:17

He will be fine, it is always difficult the first time, he is at home which is familiar to him and with people who will give him lots of attention, bet he doesn't even notice. Have agreat time x

plj · 19/01/2009 08:27

I am sure he will be fine. As Eve34 said, he is in his own home which is good, and will have the attention of 2 adoring aunties! Go and enjoy yourself! You will be fine too!

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notyummy · 19/01/2009 08:47

We have done this from when dd was 8 months old, and snuck off for a night or two away a couple of times a year. She was always fine, and LOVED all the extra/different attention. You will worry a bit, but try and enjoy the time with DH and be grateful that you have great SILs that are prepared to help

drjane · 19/01/2009 11:00

Thank you everyone - that's what I wanted to hear I feel much better now.

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