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Come and slap me and tell me I am paranoid teacher just saw me telling dd off .(long)

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Fiveplusbump · 27/11/2008 09:31

I posted last night about both dd's been naughty ,I was hoping it would have calmed down this morning . Well dd3 has been good but dd2 is worse .
First thing she was hyper winding her siblings up and the dog ,then she threw a fit over a song her sisters were playing this caused a tantrum then she ran off with her elder sisters DS and somehow managed to wipe the saved game .The final straw was 5 mins before we went when we realised she had hid dd3's school bag (she has pe first thing so her uniform is in the bag to get changed into after PE) it took ages to find it and she just sat there saying "find it yourself".
So at last off to school I held her hand on the way up because she said she was going to run off ,halfway up I told her I would let go if she promised not to run away ,she promised I let go she ran . Her shoe came flying off but she carried on all the way to her classroom and went into class with one shoe on .
When I got to school she must have seen me and came out I shoted and told he she was naughty and had scared me ,silly thing to do she said no you are a naughty mummy ,so I told her to go into class and that this behaviour is why she was not going to her friends party .
I then saw the teacher staring at us through the window .
I took dd3 to class and then popped back to dd2's class to give her a kiss and tell her I would chat with her when she came home ,in the class her etacher was sat next to her and dd was looking all innocent and hard done to, teache never said a word to me and is usually quite nice .
I am not a shouty mummy and I didn't go OTT with the telling off so why am I feeling so bad and paranoid ?
I am just at the end of my tether she can be such a good girl but then has a couple of weeks of this kind of behaviour ,what am I doing wrong just feel like crying .

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Morloth · 27/11/2008 09:34

Perhaps the teacher didn't say anything cause she didn't want to seem to be involved/questioning your authority? I know if I am around another parent and their kids are kicking off, then I don't say anything while mum is dealing with it.

The little buggers can just drive you MAD sometimes can't they.

morningpaper · 27/11/2008 09:36

Teacher was probably VERY HAPPY to see a good mummy trying to install some discipline in her child

Don't fret x

teenspirit · 27/11/2008 09:37

Your doing fab we are have much worse moments please don't be upset [hugs]
I have friends that are teachers and believe me they have seen it all before and either are oblivious to it or laugh about it behind closed doors plus if they have their own they have been there.
The teacher probably didn't want to get involved and don't forget they spend so much time with our kids they are rarely fooled!

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MmeLindt · 27/11/2008 09:37

Ok, first I think that you should ban computer games in the morning. We used to allow the DCs to watch some TV before school and it always caused problems and made it difficult to get out of the house.

Second, the teacher knows your DD. I assume that she is also sometimes a bit difficult in class, she would have seen your DD run off and would understand you shouting at her.

Sometimes it is good when you can play good cop bad cop with children, they get a telling off from Mama, so they go to Papa, who is not so annoyed and can see the problem for both sides and offer an more unbiased view.

Finally, I would not threaten to ban her from going to her friend's birthday party. That is a BIG thing for little girls.

Go and have a cup of tea and a biscuit.

How old are your DDs?

Fiveplusbump · 27/11/2008 09:42

Thanks I feel a bit better now .
The computer game thing no one is allowed on it in the morning she took it and ran away with it and was upstairs with it for 10 mins before we realised ,but I know what you mean about TV when we have it on they are all very sluggish .

I know it sounds silly but I am wondering if dd is coming down with something ,she usually goes hyper just before she gets a bug and she has been a bit snotty ,does that sound daft ?

I might pop into class tonight and just ask how she has been in class and mention she has been a bit off at home .

Thanks again.

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Fiveplusbump · 27/11/2008 09:43

Sorry my dd's are 9 ,7,5 and 2 .

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sockmonkey · 27/11/2008 09:55

DS1, who is normally very well behaved was a bit like this the other week, then came down with chicken pox (started with a snotty nose & bad attitude). Is it going round your school?

wotulookinat · 27/11/2008 10:13

Oh gosh, don't worry about the teacher seeing you - the teacher was probably pleased to see a parent disciplining their child.

MadamDeathstare · 27/11/2008 16:29

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