He is the eldest and is the only boy ,he is a very bright boy and I am always getting comments from people about his maturity and good behaviour ....however at home it is a diffrent story he acts like a brat he often uses words like freak and idiot to his sisters and his dad and also refuses to go upstairs if he is punished for anything which then means dp or myself physically moving him to his room and he fights and pushes .
He lies about what he has said and just lately comes out with things like we don't love him and the girls are the favourites .
He also mutters things about me under his breath when he is in a mood (this drives me the most mad) and has taken to blanking me for example this morning I shouted him 4 times to fetch a letter he wanted me to sign and he just carried on laying on his bed flicking through a magazine ,he laso blanked me on the way up to school .
He can be so lovely and caring and gets a lot of attention of us and some other family members plus os involved a lot with sports at school.
I just dont know what to do I dont want to be shouting and nagging him all the time but its getting me down .