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8 year old says she hates herself and doesn't want to live

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Abitconcerned · 10/11/2008 11:33

A bit concerned is under statement of the year.

Bit of background, she's come out with corkers like that before and we've tried, don't be daft come lets get you off to school type ignoring it in case it was attention seeking.
At school she told other 7 year olds last year she was going to kill herself with a knife and caused all hell to break loose.
She has actually gone to my kitchen draws and taken out a knife causing my other kids to scream blue murder with fear.
This morning she came out with this because DH told her to hurry up getting dressed, not in a gruff voice just chivying her along like he did with the others.
She seems to get little pleasure from anything, has had drama classes, horse riding, piano, brownies etc she just cannot be arsed with any of it.
I have booked an appointment with the GP, we've exhausted the schools options I feel. I've sat and cried in the heads office because she has so few friends and ailienates herself from the other children.
Has anybody else been through this and had a positive outcome ?
Sometimes she seems really happy, watching tv, reading and drawing and then times she's so angry and self harms (in punching her own face). It terrifies the younger ones and frankly me too.

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Abitconcerned · 11/11/2008 22:37

Well hubby and I went to see the head and she took down the details, the girls who were causing the problems were brought in and told how they'd made DD feel and they apologised.
I've only had DD's account of events as the head hasn't called me yet, but I have no doubt's she will.
I'm going to leave the GP because she's happy as a song bird now, she had the good sense to call Childline which I'm really proud of her for and she's seen that we will act if she's being made unhappy and I think for now I'm satisfied that she is just reacting to feeling miserable.
I just don't want to start anything that is OTT or unnecessary.

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georgimama · 12/11/2008 13:54

I'm really glad your DD is happier now, what a sensible girl she is to phone Childline and get some advice one on one. Glad the school are taking it seriously too.

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