chunky thighs, a long body and a skinny waist?
I tried DD in totsbots bamboozles and found that she 'outgrew' them at about 4mo! I couldn't get the nappy to fit around her thighs. Also, the wrap used to curl over making the aplix fastening cut into her tummy. We gave up on reusables because I was so disappointed that she had already outgrown them. I also really struggled with finding clothes that fitted her given how long she is in the body already (I don't have the money to buy the special clothes).
Anyway, we're expecting DC2 so I would appreciate your ideas.