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My tips for potty training.

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LivvyW · 02/07/2008 20:18

Just thought i'd post my thoughts while 'fresh' from potty training my 22mo DD. Hope someone finds them useful.

  1. Wait until they are ready.
  1. Once daytime nappies are off, keep them off. No excuses.
  1. Use a big toilet as soon as possible (on day three when you venture out somewhere)
  1. Keep kitchen roll in bathroom to dry off potty and prevent damp bottom, and mopping up floor. It's flushable!
  1. Take the opportunity for you to drink tons more water than you normally do, and go together!
  1. Use wipes for poos and have somewhere to put them rather than flushing down the toilet.
  1. Put pictures (animals?), toys or books around at eye/potty level to help distract when a little more patience is needed.
  1. Write down every trip to loo, time, place, and what the outcome. It will help build up at picture of what their pattern is, and saves endless nagging 'do you need the loo?' You'd also spot any signs of witholding etc. Makes your first trips out easier if you know they can go 45 mins without going.
  1. Heap loads of praise and consider only offering bribes if your going out and are trying to get them to go before you go.
  1. Wearing short tops (waistlength) helps until the bottom half is managable.

  2. Buy pants a little on the large size. Reasonable quality too as cheapy flimsy ones can be prone to 'curling' when being dragged up. Buy at least 12 pairs.

  3. Bring them with you to the toilet for months prior to starting training and explain what your doing. Let them see their own poo in their nappy, so it's not a shock when they see it in the potty.

  4. Leave water in the washhandbasin so when they are ready to take a trip to the potty themselves, they can wash their hands too.

  5. Give them a facecloth as their own towel, it's easier to handle.

  6. Be patient!

Good luck.

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Monkeytrousers · 02/07/2008 20:19

wait unti they are ready defo. I waiterd till ds was just over three and did it without incident over two days.

tassisssss · 02/07/2008 20:19

wow at your 22month old dd being trained!

well done to you both!

lulumama · 02/07/2008 20:21

brilliant!!

DD is going to be 3 at the end of this month. took her out of nappies on monday after some success on toilet for a couple of weeks. dry day and during nap times, and dry nappies in the morning after 2 days!! bit of a problem as she did not poo for 3 days, but had a poo today and i thikn she will be ok now!

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Monkeytrousers · 02/07/2008 20:24

Cool Lulu. DS did still had a "poo nappy" for a while as he would make himself ill not going.

LivvyW · 02/07/2008 20:31

tassissss, thanks but it really was all her. I would have waited until after three if i thought it was going to be loads of hassle. But once she had used the potty at all, she started wanting her nappy off after the tiniest dribble. And i figured she was ready.

Lulumama, sounds like your/she's there already, arn't you just so proud. I am. We had a couple of painful poos and advice was extra fruit to keep them coming!!!

We also said bye-bye to the poos when we flushed, that seemed to make pooing more interesting!

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hairtwiddler · 02/07/2008 20:46

Thanks LivvyW, all great tips, and well done! We're also potty training, and have had two dry days with DD in nursery, although did have one poo in pants today.
Any tips for your third tip? I can persuade DD to sit on our loo with poo bear toilet seat but she's scared of other loos. I really don't want to have to lug a potty around with me everywhere!

LivvyW · 02/07/2008 21:06

hairtwiddler, i really only discovered tip 3 by accident, we were out at a friends and she was saying she wanted to go, and i just popped her on, held her under her arms and knelt down in front of her and kept chatting to her, really upbeat. I thought she wouldn't take to it, but she did. I was surprised and delighted. Maybe just be as chirpy as you can, and distract as much as possible. Talk about the new enviroment as much as possible. Ooh look at those green tiles, what colour is the door? I find as soon as her ass hits the seat, she goes.

That has it's drawbacks though, i was at a 2nd birthday party on Saturday, and in an hour and a half we had 13/14 trips to the bathroom to visit the yellow towel!!

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hairtwiddler · 02/07/2008 21:15

Yes, I spent Monday sitting on the floor of the loo at toddlers while DD enjoyed the benefits of being in a cubible on her potty! Thanks for tips.

Nemoandthefishes · 02/07/2008 21:23

Deffo have to be ready
Ds was 2.2 and out of night at 2.6yrs
DD1 was 2 and 1 week and came out of day and night at the same time.

DD2 is 18mths this week and have just found her sitting on the toilet with nappy on making peeing sounds so think she may be my earliest yet

lulumama · 02/07/2008 21:33

thanks it is really quite exciting ! >

my doula skills came into the fore today as DD was crouched under the kitchen table clutching herself, saying 'poo coming , it hurting'.. much back rubbing and soothing and deep breaths..followed by great celebration when the poo arrived!!.

seeing her running round in knickers it the sweetest thing.

although that she really is not a baby any more

Nemoandthefishes · 02/07/2008 21:37

pmsl lulu..you really must venture out more

lulumama · 02/07/2008 21:39

don;t ! i spent all day monday and most of tuesday sat in the house! but now i feel ready to go out with her.. what is the worst that can happen?

Nemoandthefishes · 02/07/2008 21:40

oh lulu if had known we would have come straight to lulu towers..lol
worst that can happen is you need to take her whole wardrobe of clothes with you..oh and she wees on that £6000 rug somewhere spectacular..nice

lulumama · 02/07/2008 21:42

don't !! you are always welcome here, BTW, if you are in this neck of the woods, door always open, wine always open kettle always on !

Nemoandthefishes · 02/07/2008 21:43

lol
I had actually forgotten how quick it is to get to southport..think it was only 35/40mins.

lulumama · 02/07/2008 21:47

well , if you are here again, you must let me know and we can meet for an ice cream. SA2 can tell you i am perfectly normal

Flum · 02/07/2008 21:49

ha to the rug. all our carpets are old and minging but I have a silk rug DH gave me for anniversary present that is far and away the NICEST thing we own. It is currently rolled up in corner of sitting room until dd2 crackst the potty business. WE have no probs with wees, got that done in 3 days. The poos though oh dear, she just does nto want to do in potty or loo. Gets in a right state, jumps on and off potty for an hour, rubs tummy, cries, then does it on the floor!

DD1 was the same, she used to go for days holding it in and got quite addled and badly behaved by the 3rd or 4th day, then eventually did it in nighttime nappy.

kingfix · 02/07/2008 21:54

Any tips on signs they are ready? DD tells me she's doing a poo but only seems to know a wee is coming if she's naked. )PLease, novice here)

livysmum · 03/07/2008 03:38

TIP 2- when daytiem nappies are off, keep em off. ---- what did you use instead of a normal nappy? I went and got pull ups with teh cool alert but she seems to not mind the dampness, but I want her out of these nappies because shes always getting a nappy rash. help

Question -- What do you do when your DD of 22months freaks when you even just sit her on a loo?
today was my first attempt and i sat her on the potty after lunch and she was not crying tears but just an unhappy cry with teh whole situation and saying "all done" like a broken record

lulumama · 03/07/2008 09:36

i found that putting DD in pullups and taking her to the loo and sitting her there helped, and lots of praise for a wee.

but putting her in knickers seemed to sort her out within 24 hours.. first day in nappies she had 4 accidents, by the second day, she was asking to go to teh loo.only one accident since.

if the child is upset and distressed, tehn maybe don;t push it. don;t want to associate loo and distress.

leave it a few days?

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