My mum gave me an envelope last week with three newspaper articles in. One on Ikea's grobags (can't remember last time I went there), one on a boy's ears that are an inch different in height(?) and one on the nanny who is in court because the baby in her care died and had injuries in line with being shaken. I asked why she had given me this and she said she was worried about my daughter (20 months) because she's only just started walking without hold my hand and she's not yet speaking (although she's a 'signer' and I believe they do talk later). BUT that's not all - I asked what that had to do with the article and she said that she thought I might have brain damaged my baby when I used to shake her! Well, this was news to me, never having shaken her in my life. When I asked what she meant by that, it turns out she's talking about when I used to swing her round when we were 'dancing' and doing 'see saw Marjorie Dawe!' I spoke to her later on the phone and told her how cross I was. Shen then called back (I didn't pick up) and left a message to apologise. I don't want to bring it up again because I will just get cross and may say something I regret, but what am I to do to stop her from being so hurtful, and silly, again?