So my ex partner isn't happy with the figure he has for pay child maintenance. He had three bonuses last year which has put his pay from last year right up.
He basically left me for someone else, lied to me, treated me like I was no one, told me he didn't care about me and I wasn't his problem. He was vile to the point it's really put me down. Me and the girls have been classed homeless whilst he swans around in his 4 bedroom house. I've also had to put my dog in foster until we find a home which has broken my heart.
I've been lovely to him so far for the girls sake. He rang me up asking if I'll agree to change the child maintenance that he has them over the 104 nights a year to bring it right down. He's also refused to pay for any educational activities or anything they need when he originally thought it was £100 less than it actually is. But wants me to buy everything and for us to share it all.
What would you do? I feel it was wrong of him to call when he knows I'm under a lot of stress and at the end of the day why should I when he treated me so nasty when I've done nothing but be lovely to him and be a good mum to our children. Surely he could talk to them himself and explain.