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How can I stop my 9 year old staying up too late?

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Phonicshaskilledmeoff · 29/06/2026 07:59

I have a 9 year old who is very easily distracted and has what you may describe as adhd traits. Her room is on the top floor of 3 stories. Never had an issue with her going to bed. However lately she’s taken to reading just before sleep - and sometimes other things like crafting etc. I don’t mind her reading for a half hour at all, but she’s ready much later into the night and she’s often exhausted the next day. I mostly don’t realise she’s still up. Shy of checking on her every 5 mins (becuase she here’s me coming anyway) what can I do!?

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ExplodingSmittens · 29/06/2026 20:02

mathanxiety · 29/06/2026 17:51

The burst of energy at bedtime is transition anxiety. It's not genuine energy, but adrenaline.

Melatonin might help a lot, or magnesium glycine. I realise the British have been told givng melatonin is like feeding your child.poison though.

I don’t think it’s poison, it’s just so bloody hard to get hold of in the UK.

Sunshineandgrapefruit · 29/06/2026 20:20

You can't. You can keep her in routine though. Up at the same time irrespective, meal times constant. Wind down time. Go up to bed at a reasonable time, no screens and she stays in her room. She will regulate herself eventually.

backformoreofthesame · 30/06/2026 10:18

Take the bulbs out of anything you can’t control

but I think an electrician could fit up a timer switch for any lights and a buzzer if they get activated outside of set times

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BauhausOfEliott · 30/06/2026 11:18

user293948849167 · 29/06/2026 16:09

I used to read until late too, my DD would come to bed 11-12 o’clock and find me still reading and make me switch everything off! Make sure she’s not reading under the covers with a torch, I ruined my eyes doing that

Reading in low light doesn't damage your eyes. It might give you a headache or make your eyes a bit sore temporarily, but it doesn't affect your actual eyesight or cause any structural changes to your eye.

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