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Coldcoffeekindamorning · 15/05/2026 09:20

My 6yo DD has always had copious amounts of energy, hates sleep, hates rest, hates sitting still. I have recently broached her school to raise concerns about this and her teacher is keeping an eye on her. DD tries very hard but recently I've notice that she is beginning to struggle with certain things but because she is doing very well at school and is very bright/eager to learn I don't think they are too worried.

My concerns are that I have run out of methods to try and stop her from crashing. She just wants to keep going and never stop and it's impacting her emotionally now. She gets enough exercise and mental stimulation but come the end of the day, its like she ramps up and will not stop. I've tried deep relaxing baths, reading books, quiet crafting/drawing/colouring in, being outside as long as possible but nothing seems to be working anymore.

She really is at her best when we are in nature and is allowed to run free. If we spend all day at the beach or in the woods then she is happy and calm but that's not possible day to day with school.

I've also notice that she seems to be going too fast with her friends, like they are always telling her to slow down and play but she is always running away like a stray cat and then they all get frustrated and start squabbling. I've tried to talk to her about this but she can't seem to do it.

So I'm reaching out here to ask for practical advice as to how to help her because I'm totally out of ideas. I'm not sure if she has something like ADHD or this excess energy is just in her nature but please someone help me!!!

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Octavia64 · 15/05/2026 09:33

What sport is in her daily routine?

so for example with my daughter we used to walk to school from a young age, across the fields with hiking boots and change into school shoes once there.

when older she cycled to school with her brother.

both were pretty substantial times in nature and a lot of exercise.

you may find regular exercise before or after school useful.

SM33 · 15/05/2026 09:38

Things that have helped our AdHD daughter - weighted blanket, listening to audiobook, having a set time when she has to go to her room and most importantly melatonin, which essentially has been the game changer!

Coldcoffeekindamorning · 15/05/2026 14:15

Octavia64 · 15/05/2026 09:33

What sport is in her daily routine?

so for example with my daughter we used to walk to school from a young age, across the fields with hiking boots and change into school shoes once there.

when older she cycled to school with her brother.

both were pretty substantial times in nature and a lot of exercise.

you may find regular exercise before or after school useful.

She walks to and from school every day, does after school sports club x2 days a week and then i always give her plenty time in the garden after school and will often be on the trampoline for ages. I work some evenings and then I also have a younger child so I have to work within the whole family's limits mid week. At the weekend she will manage a 7km walk no bother and we quite often do something like that most weekends plus swimming lessons....

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Coldcoffeekindamorning · 15/05/2026 14:17

SM33 · 15/05/2026 09:38

Things that have helped our AdHD daughter - weighted blanket, listening to audiobook, having a set time when she has to go to her room and most importantly melatonin, which essentially has been the game changer!

Any advice on weighted blankets? How does one get ahold of melatonin for kids? Do you have to get a prescription after diagnosis?

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BeMintFatball · 15/05/2026 14:22

There is a science behind weighted blankets. The weight is calculated based on a percentage of the child’s weight. Sorry I can’t remember what%. I bought one for my anxious daughter but she was already an adult.

I bought the blanket from eBay. My tip would be put a duvet cover over the top to keep it fresh as it can’t be washed in the washing machine.

SM33 · 15/05/2026 16:30

Coldcoffeekindamorning · 15/05/2026 14:17

Any advice on weighted blankets? How does one get ahold of melatonin for kids? Do you have to get a prescription after diagnosis?

The paediatrician prescribed it at her initial appointment- she wasn’t diagnosed for another 6 months.

turkeyboots · 15/05/2026 16:36

My DD swam with a team from age 8. Those 6am training sessions nearly killed me but worked wonders for her focus at school.
But a formal diagnosis and medication is also a way forward.

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