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SPREADHSEETS FOR HOlidays activities?

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Flobberghasted · 21/06/2008 14:15

flippign nroa this mum is unhinged

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Flobberghasted · 21/06/2008 14:15

bu "digory and rex" arf

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FluffyMummy123 · 21/06/2008 14:17

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brightongirldownunder · 21/06/2008 15:17

Cod you're giving the game away with these posts.
Loving the fluffy bat BTW

Carmenere · 21/06/2008 15:21

They are bonkers. If your children spend all summer busy they will never experience boredom and they will never be able to whine 'im boooored' and you will not be able to threaten them with housework. And then they get soo bored that they begin to not mind doing house work. Tis tradition and training in one.

Dynamicnanny · 21/06/2008 15:53

I do a calendar full of activities but mainly cheap thing at the local museums etc - or a day at bolwing so I can sort out my finaces and the children are entertained.

FluffyMummy123 · 21/06/2008 16:10

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Dynamicnanny · 21/06/2008 17:41

A pink day Cod? What happens on a green day?

JackieNo · 21/06/2008 17:48

I know what you mean, but it is difficult when you can't take all the time off. I've managed to have all of August off as unpaid leave the last 2 years, but this year only 2 weeks unpaid, and some holiday, which will cover most of the time. But in the time I'm off, I won't be planning too much stuff. I definitely agree they need some boredom.

motherinferior · 21/06/2008 17:51

I think there are two things here, though; one is holiday care - which is a nightmare for many parents - and the other is the idea of constant activity.

I'm quite happy for my kids to veg, but I would rather like them to do so under some kind of, you know, care. What with working and all.

Califrau · 21/06/2008 17:54

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Porpoise · 21/06/2008 17:55

blimey, i'm even worse at spreadsheets than i am at finding stuff to do in the hols...

Dynamicnanny · 21/06/2008 18:25

I'll do you a spreadsheet Califrau

mollysawally · 21/06/2008 18:44

What are these women going to do once the children are all grown up?
They dedicate their lives to making sure there children wear exactly the right clothes, eat exactly the right food groups, do all the right activities.
I'm not saying you shouldn't care about these things but some mum's seem to be obsessed.
Don't they realise that one day their little babies will be fully grown adults and won't want/need them planning every minute of their lives.

OverMyDeadBody · 21/06/2008 18:51

mollyswally they will probably still try organising their grown-up children's lives, and will also of course have the wonderful job of organising their and their DH's retirement plans.

I just take every day as it comes with DS.

FluffyMummy123 · 21/06/2008 19:28

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mollysawally · 21/06/2008 23:57

True OMDB, poor dh!

KarenThirl · 22/06/2008 09:47

The example in the article is certainly extreme, and I do appreciate that some parents go over the top about these things, but organisation is essential for most families during school holidays. Not many people can take the full break off work so if you want to spend time with other families it has to be scheduled to coincide with each other's commitments. Playschemes are an essential part of the holidays for most parents, at least for a week.

I think it's rather unfair to assume that organisation is all about control because for most of us it isn't anything like that. Children don't become independent overnight and it's something that you have to teach them in stages, and some take longer than others.

I also think it's a good idea to continue with activities and classes that they go to during the holidays. It builds a sense of commitment and appreciation of other people's time for organising them (instructors etc). They don't learn that sort of thing by running feral for six weeks.

You have to have a certain amount of scheduling if you want your children to have a varied and enjoyable holiday. A lot of activities they may want to do have to be booked, you can't just turn up, and that inevitably means planning.

And some families HAVE to have a high level of structure because of special needs. We had a hanging-out day last Sunday and ds was beside himself by 3pm because he NEEDS to know what's happening next or he falls to pieces. I'd love to let my lad run free during the summer but he'd never cope with it, not at the stage he's at. Right now his safety is more important than anything else and structure is a significant part of that.

Like most things in parenting, it's about balance. I definitely agree with allowing for some boredom so that they can learn to entertain themselves, but all children need some form of structure, even during holiays.

whippet · 22/06/2008 09:57

I have a summer holidays spreadsheet, so fark off...... all the other mums phone me to see what's on

MaloryBriocheSaucepot · 22/06/2008 10:03

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mollysawally · 22/06/2008 10:10

I'd love to live in the malory household!

fullmoonfiend · 22/06/2008 10:10

my children have structure during the holidays
7am - get shouted at by parents for waking them up
9am - get shouted at by parents for not waking them up
10am - get themselves breakfast while mum frets about the fact it is pissing it down for the 6th consecutive day
11am - children go to shop for sweets
11.15 - children disappear back to rooms to play
1pm - lunch
1.10 - children disappear back upstairs to piss about and make a mess
2pm - mum attempts to drag children to supermarket
4pm - mum eventually suceeds in dragging kids to supermarket
5pm - tea
5.15 - rain stops and children disappear outside for a couple of hours
8pm - bedtime
11pm - parents pleasd with children to go to sleep as we have work next day

posieflump · 22/06/2008 10:11

Malory that sounds perfect, can I book my dc in now

MaloryBriocheSaucepot · 22/06/2008 10:12

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