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Do they ever get tired of pulling their hat off?

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Octagonchecker · 25/04/2026 18:19

I'm asking seriously, for people who have been persistent with hats for young toddlers. Do they actually get tired and give up pulling it off, eventually, or not? The last few times at the park with my 18 month old I have been very persistent about putting the hat back on when he takes it off. I look back at when he was in hospital with nasal prongs for bronchiolitis and he did stop pulling them off eventually but it took about 5 hours of persistence and obviously in that situation he was sick and exhausted. Today every time he took the hat off I calmly put it back on, and he didn't get annoyed or upset, but he continued to automatically reach up and remove it every time. The longest I got out of him was about 30 seconds wearing it but mostly it was sort of 2 seconds really. So hundreds of hat replacements in an hour. My theory was that he would get used to wearing it and give up pulling it off when he realised it was would always go back on, but this hasn't happened today. Does it work eventually? Or should I just, what, stop? And his scalp gets burned? What do I do?
Before anyone says "no hat no play", he's too young to understand that kind of ultimatum. He just wouldn't understand why he wasn't allowed out. And the hat already has a strap but he is able to pull that up, or at least scream and struggle enough that it comes off eventually.

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hellospring26 · 25/04/2026 18:36

Nope. It was a battle I gave up. It was sunscreen and shade for us. Winter hats were the same. They were both NICU and the NG tubes were out at least every other day.

Yesyouneedtogotohospital · 25/04/2026 18:39

Not before you get tired of trying to put it on!

Roads · 25/04/2026 18:39

Honestly no it's not a battle you will win so the best thing you can do is keep them in the shade and only in the sun for short bursts.

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Yesyouneedtogotohospital · 25/04/2026 18:41

I just kept mine out of the sun as much as possible. I’m not a fan of sunscreen so it was long sleeves, long trousers and finding shady spots in the heat. I don’t cope well with hot sun either, so it wasn’t a hardship!

TeenLifeMum · 25/04/2026 18:43

Nope, and then they take off shoes (especially new ones from Clarks) and drop them “somewhere” when you’re not looking 😭 (it was Asda and someone recognised me frantically retracing my steps and told me Asda main desk had them)

Ineedanewsofa · 25/04/2026 18:45

Nope, mine never kept a hat or a sock on until at least reception! Even now, age 10, the first action coming in the house is shoe and sock removal. Hats are tolerated as a necessary evil in winter but only when it’s really cold. Sunhats/caps are still a hard no!
DC doesn’t like being too hot though so will seek the shade after a small amount of sun and was the same as a toddler so I didn’t worry too much

Tulipsriver · 25/04/2026 18:47

Yeah, but then they refuse to take it off and try to wear it in the bath (or is that just mine?).

chocomoccalocca · 25/04/2026 19:04

Ds1 would happily wear his hat and left it on and even now at 8 will choose to wear a hat when he can going from winter to summer ones with out a break in the middle!! DS2 different story hated wearing his hat though I had one that did up user his chin which he could get off, he got frustrated trying and then gave in. Still doesn’t wear a hat as readily as his brother but he got better!

Surelyitscoffeetimenow · 25/04/2026 19:11

Oh my son hated hats and we lost multiple because they were thrown out the pram but then he turned two and they became a wardrobe favourite. He's three now and been walking around for days wearing last year's sun hat, even indoors when he obviously doesn't need it. He wore it walking to nursery the other day and all the way home (and presumably in-between). Once he was old enough to express a preference for things, I was able to win him over by picking a hat he actually likes. He makes ridiculous multicoloured choices but if he likes it, it saves a battle every time it's sunny, cold etc. so I can live with that.

kscarpetta · 25/04/2026 19:14

I'm a childminder and have never found the hat thing a problem to be honest.
Just a quick 'ah ah' if they reach to take it off and back in the buggy if they continue.

User7435977 · 25/04/2026 19:17

I tied my dc hats on with the straps or bought ones that had a toggle and a string.

BertieBotts · 25/04/2026 19:20

No. DS1 pulled every hat off forever. DS2 / 3 wore them without complaint. I didn't do anything different to introduce them.

FairyBatman · 25/04/2026 23:20

If they do it will only be because they are taking something worse off instead, like their pants.

ToddlerMumAddictedtoCoffeee · Yesterday 13:40

Mine gave up, yes. But I made the hat a thing EVERY TIME we stepped out of the house. Cloudy or sunny or evening time, I put a hat on him. So he associates going out with a hat. He now taps his head for a hat when he wants to go out.

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