I need some other parents advice as I'm not sure if I'm overreacting or whether I am right to feel uneasy about my child's recent experience at nursery. They have been attending nursery for several months now and absolutely loving it so far however they will be turning 3 soon and therefore will be moving out of the toddler room they are in now to the pre school room. They had their first session in preschool room a few days ago however a few things have made me uncomfortable about it.
When I went to pick her up I overheard a member of nursery staff speaking to her through the door and they were very harsh and abrupt with her, asking her where her peg was and getting audibly cross with her when she didn't know.
I have been potty training my child for about 5 weeks now and not once has she had a wet accident at home or at nursery however whilst spending a few hours in preschool and she had four wet accidents in her trousers which has really upset her and now she is really scared about having an accident, something I have never punished or told her off for.
The thing that worries me the most is just how upset she has been since visiting the pre school room. She has cried on and off for days saying things like "no playgroup" "not go to playgroup" "sad at playgroup" "I did bad". It is just so different to how she has been before and I'm worried that the staff in preschool room have been telling her off for having accidents as she seems really distressed and the thought of them telling her she has been bad breaks my heart as I never speak to her like that.
Am I being an over protective mum or would these things bother you too? Any advice would be appreciated.