Shes still breastfed to sleep, then put down on the bed before I make my exit, I used to stay with her and have a hour nap myself but now have a newborn who will choose these times to be most alert, when she wakes up you can see on the monitor she looks for me then starts crying and gets off the bed to come find me, I would go to her at the point if im not trapped under a newborn. My question is am I doing any phycological harm to her by been there when she goes to sleep then not been there when she wakes up?