Hello
so me and my ex split about 3/4 years ago, I was MISERABLE. This has no point in the story just more so people know I didn’t just leave for fun etc. so we have a daughter who is 6 next month, she is challenging, she is strong willed, angry, wants her own way, very full of attitude, it’s giving teenage vibes. Anyway I can’t ask her dad for any help because he makes me feel like shit “you have no control” “she never does this for me” etc, he has her 5 days a month n says that’s good enough. Anyway, I am exhausted, I work, I do every school run, appt, meeting, party, out of school clubs, sick days etc whilst he does fuck all. So anyway I’ve found out he’s been having secret meetings at her school right and honestly like wtf why????? He doesn’t do anything he does the absolute bare minimum he can get away with and acts like he’s father of the year. Like I just have so much anger around his existence because I’m sick of it I’d rather he fucked off and wasn’t involved at all because I’m sick of him making me out to be the bad mum when he does nothing except give me pure attitude n snarky comments which all I wanna do is smash his head in my door when he turns up. His wife is a wanker for enabling this and then popping out 2 kids with him when he does next to nothing for the child he already had, I am so stressed I am sick of it