i dont want 2 kids !!!!!!!!

[Horsiemummy]

hi, girls
our ds is 19 months and a real handful. although i love him dearly! i had pos5 natal depression with him and i just hated the baby phase. tbh i did not really bond with him until he was about 6 months. pregnancy was hard (i had spd) and i cant imagine doing it with a wilful toddler to cope with too!

but im happy now, love him derly and i feel weare a complete family. only trouble is EVERYONE thinks you should have at least 2! and look at me like im nuts wheb i say i dont want another. dh is pressing for number 2 but im worried tthat i will bond even worse with i child i was bullied into having.

did anyone else ever feel like this?

lots of people have one child and no more.
you need to discuss your worries with your DH.

I only have one, people have given me grief for years about it and I have not budged so they have stopped.

Ironically when we move away from all the people nagging me to have more I may consider it.