I’ve taken a pregnancy test this evening which is positive. I’ve been feeling a bit weird lately, nauseas the usual early pregnancy symptoms. I have a 9 year old from a previous relationship and a 19month old with my current partner.
we tried for 4 years to have my youngest and we all absolutely love him to bits. But there have been some really emotionally hard times, pregnancy was quite difficult and he had bronchiolitis at 4 months and was in hospital for 4 nights and it was literally the worst time of my life. We’ve felt the pinch financially and have a 3 bed house and can’t afford to size up. I’ve also gone part time at work due to childcare costs and really bloody hate my job.
what I’m trying to say is I feel that there is so many reasons why i shouldn’t go through with the pregnancy and I know my partner doesn’t want to do it again but has anyone been in a similar situation and had the child and everything’s been okay?
I really don’t think it’s the right time but something makes me feel that getting a termination would be the wrong thing to do. Sorry for the long post don’t really know what I’m looking for here